Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Sisterly Bond

I don't remember my brother that much other than what my family has told me and some home videos. One particular video has my brother and I playing outside on our new swing set. I believe it was Christmas time and we were both dressed in our Christmas dress clothes. I slid down the slide and didn't manage to get my footing at the end, falling on the ground. My brother takes the hanky he had from his pocket and brushed my tights off. Every time I watch it I am overwhelmed with the love being shown. Seeing my girls together reminds me of the few memories I still have and cherish of my brother.
Today was such a beautiful day that I decided to let the girls go outside for a bit before we took our afternoon nap. Of course, I took my camera outside to snap a few shots of them interacting. I love the bond they have. I hope they always stay close and look out for one another. I hope they always share each others secrets and giggles. I sit here with tears in my eyes longing for the day we meet again. Until then, I get to witness a beautiful bond between my girls and I will do my best to nurture it. I love you, Brad!







Friday, March 27, 2015

Bikes And Kites

Yesterday was such a beautiful sunny but windy day. After Ava returned home from school we spent the afternoon outside in the front yard. Ava received a Frozen bicycle with training wheels from her abuelos for Christmas but after one trial run decided it was too hard. We've encouraged her to try again but up until yesterday she hadn't shown any interest. When she said "yes" yesterday we were super excited. She put on her owl helmet and after some encouragement from her daddy she took off!



Proud daddy looking on at his big girl!
So thankful for a hands on daddy!

Ava found her easter basket.....kite included. It was so windy I didn't mind letting her use the kite early.


Here's Ava flying her kite.


Thursday, March 26, 2015

Beginning Sounds

There are 5 areas in a Montessori classroom. Language is one of those areas. From 7 months in utero until age 6 a child has a sensitive period for language. A child from the moment they enter a Montessori classroom are given vocabulary for everything around them. A child will start with beginning language lessons such as, "I Spy," Object to Object, Picture to Object, Picture to Picture, Nomenclature Cards, and Rhyming Cards. Unlike traditional educational systems Montessori classrooms begin with introducing children to the sounds letters make. One of the materials used to teach initial sounds are the Sandpaper Letters. A child will use their fingers to trace the letter while learning the sound of the letter. After a child has learned a few letters they begin to place the letters together to form small words such as: cat, tap, and mop. I use this letter grouping that I learned from my AMS training when presenting the letters:

Red: m, a, t, s
Orange: c, r, o, p
Yellow: w, i, l, d
Green: b, f, g, u
Blue: h, e, n, j
Purple: q, y, k, z, x, v

In the next two pictures below Ava had mastered the "a" sound so I added some objects that match such as: apple, axe, and alligator. I bought these objects from Montessori Services but you can easily find objects around your house, dollar store or your local craft store. (i.e. Michael's)


Ordinarily I'd place the objects under the letter but Ava likes to cover the letter. "Follow the child."

Materials: rug or table, sandpaper letter, objects to match initial sound, and container to hold objects and letter.

If you are a more visual learner, like myself, here is a video of the initial presentation of the sandpaper letters. Here is another video for matching objects to sandpaper letters.


 Below is an extension of the sandpaper letters. I took the red group of letters and made a bingo card for those specific letters. Ava used red glass beads to cover the letters as I called them out.


Here is a short video of Ava using the beginning sounds  bingo card. 




Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Super Ava

After watching The League of Incredible Vegetables the other day Ava asked her dad to tie one of her scarves she uses for music around her neck. She insisted that she had a cape too! Ava doesn't know this but she truly is my hero. I admire her passion for life and I hope that she always stays carefree and strong willed. If there is one thing I want to instill in my girls it's that they should always choose courage over fear. I am still learning this lesson and I'm almost 33 years old. I want them to know that whatever God has for them to do in this life that they are already equipped with the means for it to happen. More importantly that everything they are, the good, bad, and ugly is "enough." I couldn't pass up this photo op.





Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Peek-a-boo Spin-off

We've all played the game peek-a-boo once or a billion times in our life. I remember playing this game with Ava countless times just to hear her deep belly laugh when my face reappeared. With that being said I bought Ava a object permanence box from Montessori Outlet around 6 months. In essence it is the game peek-a-boo because the ball even though it disappears for a few seconds is still there. Understanding that an object continues to exist when it is out of sight is a major developmental milestone for a child. This simple box is the first in a series designed by Maria Montessori to allow a child to explore the notion of object permanence. The child places the ball into the top hole and it automatically reappears on the tray.

I took this toy out of it's box and sat it in front of Lucy for the first time. I showed Lucy the small white ball and proceeded to put the ball in the hole. When it rolled back out Lucy looked up at me like "where did that come from?" She attempted to put the ball in the hole but settled for banging the ball on the box and giving the ball a taste. This takes great hand eye coordination and I'm sure within the next few weeks she'll be able to place the ball in the hole without any problems.


"It comes back, Mom!"







Wednesday, March 18, 2015

A Circle Is Round

Last week Chris and I took the time to dig through bins of Ava's old toys. I was specifically looking for the toys I bought from Montessori Outlet. Lucy started sitting up without assistance last month and I thought it was the perfect time to introduce toys that will encourage grasping, hand-to-hand transfer and pincer grip. This is great practice for when your infant starts eating items such as organic baby puffs, cheerios or cooked peas. 

Lucy, my almost 8 month old. 
I found this brilliant single shape puzzle set from Montessori Outlet. The set includes a large circle, small circle, square and equilateral triangle. Isolating each shape allows the child to focus on one shape at a time. I decided to start Lucy with the large circle. 

I love those 2 bottom teeth shining in this photo.

I love her "ooooh, what's this?" face hehe 

As Lucy picked up the circle and brought it to her mouth I made sure I said the word, "circle." It's important that we are constantly naming the objects a child is seeing in their environment. We should give them as much information about the object as possible such as, "blue circle" and "round." 
This circle held her attention for at least 10 minutes.

Maria Montessori said, “Never give to the mind more than we give to the hand.” 


Montessori From The Start is a great book that will give you a better understanding of your child's developmental stages and how Maria Montessori created her techniques based off of children's natural milestones

Monday, March 16, 2015

Lollipop, Lollipop

Ava has always enjoyed music. It doesn't matter if the music is slow or fast the little girl enjoys moving. (I guess she got it from her mama) Ava started tap/ballet back in September. Every Tuesday when I tell her it's time for dance the girl will strip whatever clothing she has on and head for her dance bag. It's the one day of the week I don't have to convince her to put clothes on. She will rush to get her hair tie, gel and brush for me to put her hair back. This in itself is a miracle because any other time I try to put a cute bow in her hair she immediately takes it out. The first picture below is when she started and the second picture is from this past Tuesday.





Waiting to go inside :)
The girls line up in a "choo-choo" before they head into class. 


This video is from her third class session. I think she did well considering she was late signing up for the class and the other girls had 2 months on her. This is her most recent dance class. I look forward to her recital in May. The theme of the recital is Somewhere Over the Rainbow and Ava's class will be featured as the Little Munchkins.

Friday, March 13, 2015

Happy Birthday Grandpa

We spent the weekend at my parent's house because it was my dad's 62nd birthday. My dad wanted his birthday to be very low key this year. He wanted takeout from Chili's and the Oreo ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins. My mom and I left early that morning to run a few errands and then ended up at Toys R Us. Dad had seen a few pictures with Ava doing some science experiments and had asked where we purchased the kit. Mom and I decided to buy him a few different kits because dad really is a big kid at heart. After we ate and had some cake Dad opened his gifts. Ava seeing the familiar looking box asked Grandpa to open it promptly. Dad tried to act like he wasn't as excited as Ava but once he opened it and started seeing what all the kit included he was eager to give one a try. He chose this kit which included breaking hard sand uncovering the bones of a T-Rex. It's times like these that Ava will be able to cherish forever. Here are a few pictures of Ava, Grandpa and Grandma at work.

Ava giving the archeologist thing a go. 

Dad's face is priceless in this picture. Ava went to town hammering. haha

Ava brushing away the dust.



Friday, March 6, 2015

It Seems Like Yesterday, Lucy

It was a long ten weeks of morning sickness, very unlike my pregnancy with your sister. I was for sure the first trimester was going to last forever. At ten weeks we went in for our first appointment and luckily we got to peek at you that day. At first glance you were perfect! Looking up at the screen, I began to imagine all that you were going to be and achieve in your lifetime. My heart swelled with gratitude that God chose me to be your mommy.
At 18 weeks you had another checkup. We got to see you again and you were so active on the screen. We were not sure we would find out your gender that day but we finally did.
Here you are, 18 weeks and 4 days old.
Your grandparents, abuelos and Tio Christian were there to find out what you were.  
Ava was ecstatic she was going to have a sister.

For the remainder of your time in my belly I was for sure you were practicing for the leading role in a Kung Fu movie. 
At 37 weeks and 4 days I began to have strong contractions 5 minutes apart around 11:00 p.m. We called Dr. Ferguson and she told us to head to the hospital. I was put in observation over night in hopes to slow or stop my contractions. The IV fluids helped slow the contractions and I was asked to check out of the hospital and to go see Dr. Ferguson at her office. I was 4 centimeters dilated and about 50% effaced. Although the Dr. preferred me to wait another week, because I had a positive strep test they gave me the option of going back to the hospital to be induced or wait until the next morning. I hadn't slept a wink the night before so Chris and I opted for the next morning delivery. We checked in the hospital the next morning and things got rolling by 7:30 a.m. After the pitocin was administered I was dilated to 10 centimeters in no time. You were born July 22, 2014 at 12:13 p.m. 

You came into this world with one single cry and then you were at peace on my chest.
10 fingers, 10 toes, 7 lbs and 11 oz., 19 inches long and PERFECT!

Everyone was so excited to meet you. It was extra special having your great abuela Sara and Tia Olga and Tio from Puerto Rico here in NC to meet you. 

It's been 7 months since you melted all of our hearts. Our family feels complete now that you're here. We look forward to every new milestone we get to share. We love you Lucy Corinne!

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